Site usability and features: 9,2/10
Profile information and graphics: 9,6/10
Partner finding potential: 9,3/10
Customer support: 8,6/10
Adult Friend Finder is originally a US site, but it now boasts about 80 million users worldwide. The site caters for all kind of adult fun, from online play and flirting to sexy meetups for both singles and couples. Much of the user content on the site is explicit, so do be aware of that before you sign up. There’s the option of a short profile, but it’s not necessary to access further features, and sign up is probably the quickest we’ve seen for any dating site. Adult Friend Finder seems like a pretty amazing find for anyone and everyone looking for fun, but it has found itself in hot water in the past because of fake profiles and data hacking. Those issues have largely been taken care of, but as ever do approach anything suspicious with care and protect your data online at all times! Apart from that… well… have fun!
Signing up for Adult Friend Finder is as simple as supplying an email address, user name, password and a quick hello message and optional bio and pictures. You’re also asked who you’re looking for - you can click as many genders/types of person as you like. You then click an activation link that’s emailed to you, and you’re in! Due perhaps to the site’s name, Adult Friend Finder’s emails often end up in spam. If you want to continue using the site, be sure to whitelist them.
On Adult Friend Finder you can view all users online and ready to chat, or see matches or users close to you. There’s also a VIP section, and a Hot List.
A big draw of Adult Friend Finder is the multiple options it gives users for communication. There are chatrooms, groups, live streams and of course messaging (though only for premium members) and also very unique features like erotic stories that users can add to and diary vlogs about their sexual escapades! There’s not a huge amount of one to one interaction, it’s more like a big, sexy party that you’ve been invited to.
Only premium members can view profiles. Most of the info on profiles can be added post sign-up, and isn’t asked for at first. Like the site, profiles are sex focussed, listing kinks, preferences and fantasies. Pictures and videos are posted on timelines rather than profiles, which makes this site a little different to most.
At 15 quid for a month’s membership, with cheaper 3 and 12 month options, Adult Friend Finder is good value. You need premium to message or see live video, so unless you just want to look at pictures and read chatrooms it’s necessary. If you want to take things IRL, or chat in real time, you’ve got to become a VIP.
Go through ‘My Stuff’ and ‘My Account’ to cancel. There’s also an address and a phone number if you have problems and need to talk to a member of staff at Adult Friend Finder.
Adult Friend Finder is a site for pretty much anything but finding a sedate and forever love. The users are looking for fun, whether alone or in couples, and they aren’t afraid to show it. Things are very open on Adult Friend Finder. And, to warn you, they’re also explicit!
Adult Friend Finder doesn’t let basic users message privately, but you can post on message boards and have input into erotic stories. Eventually, you’ll probably want some 1 to 1, but before that there are multiple options for getting to know the community and exploring possibilities.
Adult Friend Finder allows not only the usual search criteria, plus of course proximity, but also lets you search by sexier things. Literally things like fantasies, kinks and up to the minute desires.
You can also send voice messages in chat, which is a fun feature. Get some attention, or find out how a particular match sounds! Women can also sound photos, but this was banned for male POF members because they abused the privilege, sending lewd images.
Adult Friend Finder has a very good app, and many users prefer the app to the desktop site. It makes particular sense given how many audio and video features the site has. All that is easier on a phone or tablet than it is on a desktop computer.
A Hotlist is essentially a Favourites list. You add singles or couples that you want to contact later, or are interested in, and you’ll be able to find them when you have something pressing to say.
What do you get if you pay for a premium account on Adult Friend Finder? Here are a few of the added benefits.
Only fully paid up members can see full profiles. This means that if you want to read over all that revealing, sexy information that your matches and your Hotlist have posted, then you need to pay!
You can’t send one to one messages without paid membership. That means that if you want to get private, or take things offline, then you have to cough up for the VIP experience.
As wild as this may seem if you’re a more standard dating site user, there’s a Sex Academy on Adult Friend Finder. It’s made up of inscructional videos on pretty much all kinds of sex, and can be accessed by all paying members of Adult Friend Finder
As a lot of Adult Friend Finder’s traffic and action is made up by user submitted content, members who make the leap and pay for full access can tip their favourite sexy content creators. Sure, it gets you noticed, but it’s also acknowledging the hard work of other users.
1 month VIP
3 months VIP
£15.48 (per month)
12 months VIP
£11.60 (per month)
If it’s adult fun you’re looking for, then Adult Friend Finder may well be the site for you. It has a large user base, and a huge number of features. These may initially make it a little difficult to navigate, but once you get your head around how things work you’ll probably appreciate community tips, message boards, timelines, videos and audio chats. Not to mention erotic storytelling options and sexual exploit diaries. To message, you need to pay for premium membership, but if you need to dip your toes before you do that (or indeed just want to enjoy the content posted by other users) then basic membership has a decent amount included. Be warned, as with many sites of this type, there are bots and scammers active of Adult Friend Finder despite the site’s best attempts to get rid of them. And if you’re looking for a serious connection, or a romantic, traditional dating-based relationship then this site probably isn’t going to help much.
We have been members for eight years after using another site, We are gold members because it has more benefits and shows you are real enough to pay a little for membership. We have met numerous playmates during our tenure. As a couple with a sexy wife we get daily messages.
I am a man in my 30s and I use AFF ever since I can remember. I had multiple contacts with real women and was very frustrated with other sites, but not this one. One of the best.
Signed up to AFF back in November and after a few small hiccups doing alright now on the site. I always knew it had good potential and stuck with it through the quieter times. It’s paid off with fun both online and irl
I've been using AFF with mixed success, sometimes you have to go round and round in circles for a long time until you meet a more or less interesting woman. It's not a showcase of beautiful girls, the majority have average or below average looks.